Congratulations

...on your upcoming celebration of Holy Matrimony and sharing in this Sacrament! Your wedding is not only a very special day for the two of you but it is also a sacred event for the entire Church, and we want to be part of your celebration!

Before couples are married in the Catholic Church, we ask that you thoroughly prepare for this life-long sacrament. Marriage preparation or "Pre-Cana" is an umbrella term for the whole marriage preparation process. Pre-Cana is not a one day event as many believe it to be but a timely process in preparing for marriage. Here is a step-by-step guide to marriage preparation:

1. Read our Wedding Policies

1. Make contact with your Priest or Deacon as soon as possible after the engagement, but not less than six months prior to the wedding date.

2. Read the Couples Guide.

3. Set an appointment to take a pre-marital inventory, e.g., FOCCUS with your pastor or deacon. 

4. At this time we are encouraging all engaged couples to complete your Pre-Cana requirements using one of two recommended programs:
   
   Ascension Press Joy-Filled Marriage, Certification Course

   The Joy-Filled Marriage Program published by Ascension Press is the marriage preparation program utilized at our Pre-Cana sessions at Assumption Church for many years. Due to the global pandemic, Ascension Press has developed an online version of this program which offers dynamic presentations and encompasses all topics which are required by the Diocese. Once you register online, you will have access for one year to complete the program at your convenience.  Keep in mind the program must be completed before your wedding you marry.
   The Cost for the program is $50.00
   
   
   St. Paul Inside the Walls Marriage Preparation Course
   The Diocese of Paterson is offering a fulfilling online version of our marriage preparation classes to serve engaged couples during the pandemic.  The couples will explore the same Ascension Press program normally offered, which includes God's Plan for a Joy-Filled Marriage and Life Skills for Couples. The cost for this program is $100 and may require additional workbook costs.